Nearing 50 – and a new me

Nearing 50 and not liking me…..

the 80s

I was a size 0 when I was in high school and I liked my small frame, now at the age of 48 I worry about my larger size and my health.   I remember my brother used tease me when I was young, “If you turn sideways you’ll disappear,”  I was ok with that, so why now does it bother me when people say, “oh you’ve lost weight you look good.”  I guess back in those days I knew I didn’t have the weight to lose so when people say it now I feel like they see me as a person that needs to lose some lbs.

My first job out of high school was at a company called A.B. Chance Co of Canada, located in Scarborough.  One day on my way to work it happened and this would start the change in my life.  My lung collapsed, sounds simple enough go to the hospital take care of it and get on with your life.


So why do I bring up my breathing issues when I am talking about my weight gain?  my breathing issues were also the introduction of steroids to my daily life (and weight gain).  From pills, nasal sprays, inhalers and more this became a regular part of my life during asthma attacks.  Through the really bad episodes it was found that only regular high doses of prednisone would bring me back, I hate the prednisone!!  One of my drs once said, “it’s the lesser evil of your choices” , and I sadly agree.

2006 to 2014

I summarize my journey here for sake of time but this has been a 25 year journey, specialist after specialist, test after test and still no diagnoses. One Dr says, “exercise!!!” another will say, “take it easy”.  I’ve had regular visits for months on end to St. Michael’s hospital and therapy sessions that still left me undiagnosed and some weeks, fighting for my life.

Then in 2005 I was pregnant with my first child, through constant breathing problems and inhalers and then gestational diabetes I put on more weight and that started me on more of a down spiral to how I felt about me.  In 2008 I had my second child and again had gestational diabetes and more breathing issues. (although I would not change it for anything as I was blessed with two beautiful babies).

My children are 6 and 8 now and I don’t like them to hear how I feel about me, I try to keep body image as a positive one but honestly sometimes this is hard.  “mommy you need a new bathing suits.”  EEEEKKK!!! I DO NOT want to go bathing suite shopping but I also don’t want to tell them why.  Truth is I very rarely go cloths shopping at all. A few years ago my husband and I went on a vacation on a cruise and my biggest fear was the pool and having to put on the dreaded bathing suite. I never ended up in the pool on the ship.


I am also the community producer and co-host of a show called mommy talk on Rogers TV Georgina.  On taping nights everything in my closet comes out to see what I can put on that will hide my body figure especially when I sit on that red sofa.  When I watch the show I am proud of the content and the amazing show we’ve created but I cringe when I see my rolls on TV.

mommy talk team

So here I am with 50 creeping up in a few years and every winter I say I’ll lose weight in the summer when I feel better.  Then the summer hits, if flies by and aside from swimming in our pool I miss out on my weight loss goals, then my health issues kicks in again and its a big fail.

My new favourite show is Dr. Oz, I watch it every day for tips, how to live a healthy lifestyle, and great recipes, even my daughter loves this show now. I have always been a healthy eater but still needed improvement and Dr. Oz has helped me since I need to keep my energy up, always been a tough one for me, and lose weight.

This year on May 9th I will be doing a 5k walk for the Recovery Cancer Foundation and this I am hoping will motivate me to continue my journey through the summer months and beyond.

I have also ordered some products from the Jeunesse line I sell as an independent distributor.  I am going to keep my journey on my blog so that you to can follow my travels, keep me motivated and maybe I can even help you with yours.

Rise To The Occasion

As business owners we often have to do things that are out of our comfort zone.  To be successful we rise to the occasion and do it.  I try not to think about the things that are out of my comfort zone and just do what is required to do.  When I was working full time in an office the director once said to me, “Kim tackle the little frogs first and then tackle the big frogs.”

When I first opened my business these were mostly little frogs, small things like selling my brand, speaking in public, being part of committees and supporting community organizations. This may not seem like much to some but I have always been the one that worked behind the scenes, the one that made it happen. I did my job and let others be the front runners. I was the quiet voice behind the scenes and I liked it there.

I put my fears behind me when I opened my business and I did what I needed to do to grow my business and grow personally. Some days that was big frogs and some days it was little frogs.

I decided to pitch a show to our local television station, Rogers TV Georgina… this was a big frog. I pitched the show to our local supervising producer, then to the table of the “big bosses” and then an on camera audition. They liked the idea of the show and over the next 6 months there were meetings to work out the details and see what would be going to air.

mommy talk team

One day I was asked if I would like to host the show, you know be the person in front and centre, I said, “no I couldn’t do that.” I was brought in as community producer and co-host of mommy talk and I was happy with that. In March of 2012 we taped our first show… EXCITING!!!


I’ve been community producer and on set every two weeks for our tapings ever since. Then it happened…. A phone call from our host, she had the flu and taping was in 3 hours.

rogers wall

As the saying goes, “the show must go on,” and it did with me in the host seat. As I sent some texts to our host Amy she assisted me and encouraged me that I could do this. Not a lot of time to prepare, a little nervous about listening to the voices in my ear (the producer) while keeping the conversation going. With a lot of encouragement from our great producer, host and crew I hosted my first show in 2015. Can I add that once cameras were rolling the show was the easy part but the promo was another story.

host feb 2015

A few weeks later when I was needed to host once again, I did it again, a little bit better and little more confident. Although I was happy to hand the hosting hat back to our regular host I was happy to know that I could do this and sometimes we need to tackle those “big frogs” first to reach new heights.

I always tell my kids, “sometimes in life we need to do things that make us nervous but its part of life. We need to step outside our comfort zone and rise to the occasion.” What kind of example would I have been if I didn’t rise to the occasion.

Rise to the occasion; don’t let fear limit your success soar with your dreams.